You dream of being the mom you always said you'd be...
We bring that dream to life - together
PRIVATE COACHING
" Put on your own oxygen mask, first."
If we had a nickel for every time we have heard that...am I right?
Especially as mothers of special needs children and the daily navigators of complex family dynamics, such as blended or trauma-impacted families.
Trust me, if you're looking for someone who can relate to these scenarios...you've found her.
The truth is, there's nothing wrong with this saying.
In fact, it's true.
And, it applies to you.
But maybe not the "you" that you are right now.
Because there is one enormous, unspoken assumption behind that phrase: that you already have the strength, the focus, the energy and the will to put your oxygen mask on.
Someone who hasn't walked in our shoes doesn't know how heavy that mask can feel to pick up for ourselves, let alone put on.
You and I both know the weight of it. All of it. And that it's just not as simple as the expression or the idea. If it were, no one would be giving you this line of "advice" in the first place !
And each time you hear this or another similar phrase such as, "You can't pour from an empty cup" or "You can't set yourself on fire to keep others warm," you smile and nod and agree. Because of course they're right - and most often, so well meaning.
The only thing that's missing in this well-intentioned advice for you...is you.
The support that you need.
The pause that feels like you need permission to take.
The breath that you need back in your lungs.
All so you can do what you really, truly do want to do:
Turn right back around and start giving the absolute best, most loving care to every single member of your family. Help each of them to catch their own breath, so they can live their lives to the fullest.
For all of you to enjoy life together, weathering the storms with a deep-seeded strength and sailing through the calm waters on the other side with more joy and unity than you an possibly imagine right now.
We certainly think so.
Here's the truth:
It has to start with you.
Small changes, implemented with consistency .
Mindset shifts, chosen with intention.
Grace given, first and foremost to yourself.
Small wins, celebrated like the major victories that they really are in this season of your life.
It's not too broken.
You're not too far gone.
You deserve better, Mama.
Let's do it together.
PRIVATE COACHING
Mama, I only have a few spots open at any one time in my private 1:1 coaching.
It's a very unique, high touch program that only lends itself to a small
But if this resonates with you, I’d love to invite you to hear the first half of my and my family’s story.
Please pause and click here now to read it if you haven’t already:
My Open Letter to the World: "Hello, Lifewave! Goodbye, Spectrum!"
You should know that it doesn’t end there…in fact, that was just our beginning.
And yes, I’ve become a certified life coach and a Lifewave expert educator in the years since.
But the woman who wrote that Open Letter to the World, who can picture every struggle and feel every emotion years later...that’s still who would be sitting down on the other side of the screen from you, listening, loving, and letting you be as real as you need to be.
Holding your hand - and holding you accountable, until you get to the other side of your own mountain.
You’re either going to love that idea - or you’re not. And either one is fine.
You absolutely must work with a coach that resonates with you - and that may not be me.
If you are one of the many women who read our son’s testimonial in tears, thinking:
Then please get in touch for a free 15 minute consultation call.
"How on earth did she write this about her and him but it sounds so much like me and us?”
